“Comparison is the thief of joy.”
It’s a common phrase… and it’s true.

But lately, I’ve been reflecting on another side of comparison. Because if we’re honest, in every field from sports to business, from music to academia comparison happens. Especially at the top. Once you start excelling, people naturally want to line you up with the greats of your time — or the greats of the past.

And that’s not always a bad thing.

THE TYPE OF COMPARISON I WELCOME

Personally, I don’t aim to be compared to anyone. I try to live, build, and lead in such a way that makes comparison difficult. Not because I want to be better, but because I’m striving to be distinct.

But if I were to be compared… if I had to choose, I’d want it to be to some of the greats in the Bible:

• Like David, I want the patience to wait on The Most High’s timing, even when the throne is promised but not yet delivered.
• Like Noah, I want the daily diligence to keep building, even when I’m misunderstood and mocked.
• Like Solomon, I want the vision, wisdom, and strategic creativity to build systems that bless generations.

These are the kinds of comparisons I welcome — not for ego, but for alignment.

CHOOSE WHO YOU COMPARE YOURSELF TO

So if people compare you, don’t get offended.
Just ask yourself: Who are they comparing me to — and why?

More importantly, flip the mirror: Who do you compare yourself to?
Because your role models shape your goals. And your goals shape your growth.

Too often, people measure success by those who have the most to show — status, things, approval. But that’s not how I measure greatness.

Greatness is when your life makes others want to be better — for themselves, their families, and their communities.

PROGRESS THROUGH PURPOSE

Life isn’t about outshining others — it’s about outgrowing the limits placed on you.
It’s about choosing examples worth following, and becoming someone others can follow without losing themselves.

So next time someone compares you, don’t shrink.
Stand tall — and rise to a level where the comparisons point people upward.
Not just toward fame, but toward faith. Not just toward power, but toward purpose.

— Early Boykins III